To my senators, Patty Murray and Maria Cantwell. I used NOW's email form to send this, and what I sent is similar to their suggested text, but I did customize the text before I hit submit. I may not get around to sending a printed copy of the letter, but I hope to follow up with a phone call.



I am writing to you today as a supporter of women's equality, reproductive rights and health care for all.

I am urging you to oppose any provision in health care reform that would limit inclusion of abortion coverage in insurance policies to be offered in the health insurance exchanges. The House-adopted Stupak-Pitts Amendment is a very harmful provision that will deny tens of millions of women insurance coverage for a legal and safe medical procedure. All women, whether they purchase insurance with their own funds or are receiving federal affordability credits, must have insurance coverage for abortion services.

Specifically, the amendment applies unreasonable barriers for private insurance companies that participate in the new system to offer abortion coverage to women. Insurance industry executives have already confirmed (in interviews with NPR health reporter Julie Rovner) that implementing separate plans or riders for people not participating in the exchange is unreasonable, impractical, and "not likely."

This would have the effect of denying women the right to use their own personal, private funds to purchase an insurance plan that includes abortion coverage in the new health system -- a radical departure from the status quo. Presently, more than 85 percent of private insurance plans cover abortion services.

President Barack Obama promised the public that no one would lose coverage they currently have. The Senate MUST honor that promise. Abortion rights have been a Democratic party plank for a long time. Please don't undermine that pro-choice commitment. Women's votes have been critical to getting democrats elected; please do not sell us out when we've supported you for so long.

Please vote against any further restrictions on access to reproductive health care. I will be watching your vote on this issue of critical importance to women.

I sent this to Move On while unsubscribing from their newsletter:

A healthcare bill with a huge anti-abortion restriction is 'a big victory on health care'? Do you have mothers, sisters, daughters? The house healthcare bill with the Stupak amendment is no victory. The Stupak amendment CRIPPLES healthcare for women, not just in the public option, but for all insurers who want to participate. You clearly do not have *my* best interests in mind. I'm giving my money and my attention to organizations and candidates who are actually pro-choice. Not just "pro-winning."

EDIT: In retrospect, I should have skipped the ableist slur. Mea culpa. I should know better. If you're swiping this text, try "The Stupak amendment UNDERMINES healthcare for women..."

And I sent this to the JT News, a weekly jewish newspaper in Washington state:

I noticed on the front page of the October 30 JTNews a little note that said, "Celebrate Women! page 12". I turned to page 12 and what I found was: an article about a female singer ejected from the Arts & Entertainment section, surrounded by ads for electrolysis, weight loss, and other cosmetic procedures.

This is not a celebration of women. This is a marginalization. Women are being told to look pretty and stand aside. I'm not putting *this* issue of JT News out where anyone can see it -- I'd be ashamed for people to see it and think I agree with the idea that women be segregated into a women's section (what's next, exclusion from Torah studies?) or valued primarily for our looks.

...for those of you who use fiber-reactive dyes that come in powdered form, how do you store small amounts of the powder? I've got three one-ounce bags of Dharma Trading's fiber reactive dye waiting for me to play with, but I don't want to open them until I figure out how I'm going to store them. What kind of containers do you like? What tools do you use to move the powder from one place to another?

I know the larger sizes come in jars, but I won't be getting those until I start running out of what I've got!

I'm once again very grateful that I had only women teaching me math from fifth grade all the way through the end of high school.

Before all that, there was the male fourth grade teacher who did nothing when I was failing to learn long division. And after all that, there was the male calculus teacher my first year of college, who thoroughly killed my interest in taking any more math classes, despite a lingering interest in math. I got enough math under my belt for my science degree, though. And for that I can thank my teachers Ms. Jaramillo, Ms. Delman, Ms. Williams, Ms. Tom, Ms. Tello, and Ms. Benton.

Thank you for never, ever making me question whether or not I could.

(This post happened because I was reading a comments-thread over at Shapely Prose, on a post that happens to be about math, science, and/or statistics (depending on which way you cut it). And, as is so often the case, what ensued was a whole bunch of women posting their stories about the awful ways they were denied an education in math because of a teacher's assumption that "girls can't do math.")

(I posted this as a comment in a thread at ABW and figured I'd repost it here.)

Today I had a streetside flirtation that worked wonderfully, because the guy flirting with me carefully demonstrated that how much he’d give me was up to *me*. It was wonderful. He didn’t smile until I made eye contact, didn’t say anything until I smiled back, and when I broke eye contact and went back to what I’d been doing, he stopped.

If my dance card wasn’t totally full, I might have asked him for his phone number. Because unlike all the street harassment I’ve received — much on that very same downtown street — he wasn’t interested in demonstrating his power-over at me.

Today I sent this to the National Resources Defense Council:

As a long-time member of NRDC, I call on you to make a public statement in support of Van Jones. We've been quick to invoke his name when championing our causes; now, when his hard work on the environment has gained him the public enmity of media voices like Glenn Beck, we've been silent.

Discovery's "Treehugger" has spoken out:
http://www.treehugger.com/files/2009/09/grist-van-jones-back-glenn-beck.php

And so has the NAACP:
http://www.naacp.org/news/press/2009-09-04/

How can we do less?

Cheryl Trooskin-Zoller

...my phone's not holding a charge reliably, which means no surfing the internet while I'm at the park with the toddler. So I'm behind on everything internet-ly until the new battery I ordered shows up.

So if you've posted something you expect me to know about, I probably don't. :)

Inspired by the three small hot red peppers given to me at the farmer's market. "here, try these," he said. It's hot and sweet and tangy.

3 small hot peppers
1/4c olive oil
1/2 onion
4 cloves garlic
1 8-oz can pineapple in juice
2T apple cider vinegar
1T ground cumin
3T fresh chopped cilantro

Roast peppers until their skins blacken. Put in paper bag, let steam.

Chop onion & garlic. Simmer over low heat in olive oil until onion softens. Add vinegar, pineapple & juice. Simmer some more.

Cut stems from peppers. Remove seeds (or not). Chop.

Add chopped peppers, cumin, and cilantro to the onion/garlic mixture. Simmer over low heat, covered, until onions are translucent and sauce has thickened.

I'm thinking of trying this again in a week or two once they've harvested their habaneros, with fresh peaches.

Why are senate democrats trying to scare the public option out of the healthcare bill? Could they *really* get away with lifting their support from health care reform?

Huffpo reporter Ryan Grim asks Where is Kent Conrad Getting his Whip Count?

A Politico article from several weeks ago seems to imply it's incoming Dems first elected in '08 who are putting "bipartisanship" above good sense.

I mean, I can find a list of "blue dog democrats" in the House to push on. But in the Senate? We've got 60 votes, people. Neither Kennedy nor Byrd is going to sit this one out, so let's not blame their ailing health for this one.

Why the scary words about us maybe not having the votes?

So, I make it to the end of Charles Stross's Atrocity Archives. And there's this author's note.

If I'm reading it right, it appears that the relegation of women almost entirely to ineffective middle management or "bimbos", and of people of color to the bad guys, was done intentionally as a foil to play up the "almost perfect photographic negative of the real intelligence agent," the white guy who knows what's going on while everybody else is dumb and evil.

In reality, "Far from being men of action, the majority of intelligence community staff are office workers, a narrow majority of them female .... The picture changes when you contemplate non-Western organizations ..."

I understand why one might want to craft an homage to the great spy and horror novels of yore. But this falls short of pointing out the failings of the genre, and instead lands squarely in the middle of perpetuating them.

Maybe this is a Monday morning thing. Over the last twelve hours or so, the internet has put a *lot* of good reads on my plate. And now I'm sharing them with you.

If you only read two articles today, read the first two I link to here.

Neesha Meminger writes eloquently about how racism & cultural power imbalance works. "Different things to work on; different lessons to learn."

Fillyjonk writes about the cultural messages about women that we're soaking in. The recent murder of women at that fitness club in LA is used as an example.

If you're more image-minded, Adventures of a Young Feminist points to a political cartoon that makes similar points.

Speaking of shootings, violence against women, and culture of oppression, M. LeBlanc writes about Dr. Tiller's murder and the normalization of anti-choice violence.

Finally, three not-exactly-related posts on money and power:

Clinton Presses Congo on Illicit Minerals -- NYT article discussing Secretary of State Clinton's trip to Congo and the money that comes from ilicit mining that goes to funding armed groups like the ones who are using rape as a weapon of oppression in Goma. Money, violence, oppression of women.

Americans Pay $38 Billion of Bank Overdraft Fees a Year!?. Article in the Atlantic about American banking and ridiculous overdraft fees. Money, no obvious violence, oppression of "the most financially stretched consumers."

Despite Improvements, Rape Kit Billing Problems Persist. Why do people still think it's reasonable to compound injury with insult? Violence against women followed by billing the victim for $1,200.

Sheesh.

ETA: There's more substantive discussion going on over where the original post was, now. (Edited: August 14, 2009)

1. I do think that when white feminists quote other white feminists it's appropriate to mention that the person they're quoting is white. If I have failed to point that out every single time it's come up, that's because I'm human and I only have so many teaspoons. Denormalizing whiteness is something I think every white person should do whenever we can.

2. I do not think that it's at all appropriate to quote a feminist of color and then call it "derailing" when there are responses about race.

3. Requests that people please not whitewash their sources do not equate to a demand that we talk about race and nothing else. It's a request that we please not view the work of feminists of color as "feminist, but with some racial caveats." Welcome to intersectionality! Learn to talk about both race and gender at the same time.

ETA: Just saw Plain(s) Feminist's post about Feminist Mothering on Feministe that does what I'd consider fine job of including the work of Black women in the discussion without appropriating or whitewashing. See also, lauredhel's post on bell hooks on parenting and feminism on Hoyden about Town .

(this has been moved to my own space in an attempt to stop "derailing" the discussion about Audre Lorde over there.)

I often hear the question, what can liberal Whites do to be allies to people of color? Or the more-generalized question, what can those with privilege do to be allies, not oppressors, in the fight for social justice? A post by Anarchist People of Color regarding actions against Crimethinc. gave me an answer:

"Try to create a culture of calling people out on their shit."

The whole article is good, but I'm tickled to have a soundbite to pass around to people with less patience, too. (is the demand for a soundbite-sized explanations of complex situations a hallmark of privilege? I think the oppressor does live in a simpler world than the oppressed.)

In my experience, mainstream liberals can grasp why overt acts of othering are something to be avoided: the tech conference shenanigans that marginalize non-heterosexual non-males, for example.

I want to talk about the covert stuff. The stuff that sounds perfectly *normal* until somebody points it out. And then I want to talk about *why* I think it’s important that we point it out.

There’s a category I’m looking to define, which I call “Casual Othering.” It’s in the caricatures we use as shorthand to refer to whole groups of marginalized people, without ever explicitly saying anything negative about those people. Often without saying anything at all about those people – we’re just using them to make an entirely different point. The pink bow to mean an entire gender, used to suggest that if “you” engage in certain behaviors you’ll attract women. A piece of traditional garb to mean an entire race of people, used to suggest that if “you” go to this place you’ll find tasty food.

By marking the difference, we normalize the unmarked state and dehumanize the other.

By doing so casually, we exclude that group from our audience and we move on with our conversation – not stopping and talking about the exclusion renders the othering invisible and protects the speaker, who can then hide behind intention: but this had nothing to do with any minority group! Except we *made* it have something to do with that minority group by using a reference to the group as a communication tool. We’re casually making fun of a whole group of people in order to make our communication sound edgy.

And why do I think we should not do this, and point it out when other people do it? Because the practice normalizes bias. It makes demarcating and excluding difference just part of the fabric of our conversations. It provides fodder for those who want to respond, “why are you making a big deal out of this little thing?” And it creates fertile ground for the more-obviously-destructive forms of bias, forms of discrimination which require a normalization of othering before they can be enacted.

It’s a teeny-tiny step from using racial references in casual conversation to actual civil rights violations.

I strongly recommend reading rawles's post about examining Uhura's role in the new star trek movie through the lens of race and not just gender. I think she's absolutely right -- the feminist trope that female characters are often diminished by romance is oversimplified to the point of inaccuracy in the case of a woman of color, *especially* in the context of this story's history.

Still ticked off that the movie didn't do more to move women and minorities out of the "token" status. It feels like we're fighting over crumbs while the white guys hang on to the feast. Even if they are very tasty crumbs.

this week is the fourth annual International Blog Against Racism week.

I've never been good at writing on-demand; I tend to write when something lights my fire. So I'm not expecting to be linked on their big roll-up of posts. Instead, I'm posting this so you'll know about it, if you don't already.

(also, I hear the concerns people have about the potential for white voices to dominate this event, and that makes me even less willing to contribute frivolously.)

Regarding Henry Louis Gates, Jr.'s arrest, I have nothing to say because I'm too pissed off.

If somehow you have no idea what I'm talking about, all I can offer are a sampling of the things I've read today, from:
Shakesville, Bitch, PhD., Feministe, badger2305, stuff white people do, and Kate Harding's Shapely Prose.

eee!

NOW Hails Reintroduction of the Equal Rights Amendment

(Maloney's courting women's votes for her upcoming senate bid, I bet, particularly since she just seriously stumbled regarding race.)

Heard anything lately about the day care ejected from the swim club in Pennsylvania? I went hunting for information and found that the day care, invited back, declined & decided to sue instead. Good for them.

That CNN article got me thinking about what does it look like to actually, genuinely resist racism, to check our own privilege, to work for social justice?

The Valley Swim Club "asked the Creative Steps day care to return." The director of the day care says that nobody from the swim club contacted the day care with that request: "The only thing that I've heard has been third party via the media."

Right. Put on a nice face for the (white) media, and forget to speak at all to the injured parties. Sheesh. They're not sorry they hurt anybody. They're just sorry they look bad. And they've got the privilege of access to the media -- note who gets the majority of the quotes in this and other mainstream articles on the subject.

The article closes with several paragraphs of half-hearted breast-beating by the racists in question:

"I hope we can teach our children a lesson -- that you should admit errors. We should have done things differently. And if there are differences, we can overcome them."

She again denied the claims of racism and expressed hope of reaching a resolution.

"I wish we had come up with better solutions. I wish we had it to do all over again," she said.

How about, instead of wishing you could have a do-over in which to behave better, START BEHAVING BETTER NOW?

What would they do, if they did it all over again? Why can't they start doing that now?

What would an ideal response be, when an institution is faced with its own racism? Wait, let me ask a different question, because we're so far away from the ideal that I don't think we can visualize it. What would a better response be?

Instead of denying racism, how about owning up to it? We pretend to have a zero-tolerance policy for racism in our culture, but it's an illusion. Instead of actually refusing to tolerate racism, what we do is castigate the obvious offenders and then deny that any of the rest of it exists.

Because if we admitted it was there, we'd have to do something about it.

What would doing something about it look like? If the swim club actually wants to admit errors, do things differently, overcome differences, come up with a better solution -- what should they do? In the thousands of similar-but-less-blatant examples we've all seen and participated in, what should we do?

We must start by actually admitting our error and apologising: What we did was wrong, and it was racist. What we did was inexcusable. We apologise.

We must start to overcome differences by stopping the differential treatment. We should promise: We will never again privilege the prejudice of a member of our organization over the dignity of another human being. And then we should actually live up to that.

We must not accept racism in our lives, our organizations, our homes. We must label racism unacceptable and then LIVE THAT. We must work to recognize racism in our lives (because if we're not the victims of it, it doesn't come looking for us; it's only obvious to its victims, and even then, only sometimes). Our friends must be put on notice: if your words or actions are racist, I will not be your friend. As members of organizations we must know that if we speak or act like a racist, we will be ejected. As people who run those organizations, we must have the will and commitment to refuse to tolerate racism, even if that means ejecting members of our organization or kicking paying customers out of our spaces.

The better solution to recognizing racism within our own organizations is to ROOT IT OUT. The people in that club who made those racists comments, are they still members of that club? WHY??? Why should anybody who's willing to humiliate children over the color of their skin have the privilege of using your goddamn pool? Why does swim club director John Duesler still have a job?

And finally, they should be having these conversations with each other and with the people they hurt -- not with the media. Because if you're so damn concerned with saving face after you've humiliated someone else, you're never going to actually fix anything; all you're doing is defending your own damn privilege.

just realized that at some point in the last two weeks, lj-mobile logged me out, so I've only seen people's unlocked posts I've only been seeing some posts, for reasons I can't comprehend, but it appears to have stopped, now. So if it seems like I've missed something, that's why!

feel free to point me to anything I've missed if you think it's important. (of course, the mobile interface doesn't let me screen all replies. heck.)

ETA: "logged out" doesn't appear to have been exactly what was causing the problem. Not sure what was?